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The Sneaky Liar: 5 Ways to Tell if You've Been Seduced

Make no mistake about it: Little Miss Perfectionist is a drug dealer

The drug is striving.

The promise is perfection.

The victim: You.

Does this dealer have your number?

You know the one.

She shows up dressed to kill.

She's so -- perfect.

She promises you that it's possible.

Only you must keep going. Outlast the others. Never settle for second best.

Little Miss Perfectionist.

She is sneaky. She wears disguises, like her life-giving cousin, Pursuit of Excellence.

But do not mistake them for each other: Little Miss Perfectionist and Pursuit of Excellence are quite different.

5 Ways to Distinguish between High Achiever and Perfectionist

  1. Perfectionism sees the word critically; focus on mistakes rather than wins

  2. Perfectionism is fear driven; pushes rather than inspires

  3. Goal oriented to the exclusion of the journey

  4. Driven by unworthiness

  5. Bar too high

Perfectionism is an addiction.

Like all addictions, the price is high.

Perfectionism can interfere with relationships and is ultimately unsustainable.

Do you have the affliction of perfectionism?

Are you always seeking and rarely finding fulfillment?

Is it never good enough?

How do you know when you've crossed the line?

Today, let it be good enough.

Susan GainesComment